The Stories We Tell Ourselves
Ever wonder why a tiny choice—how you part your hair, whether you eat a donut—can spark a wave of judgement in your head? We pull back the curtain on the quiet scripts that turn neutral moments into moral verdicts and show how those stories hardwire your nervous system, shape your identity, and dictate whether rest feels safe or forbidden. From the myth of “I’ll rest when things calm down” to the efficiency trap of “it’s quicker if I do it myself,” we unpack four powerful narratives many women inherit and unknowingly rehearse for decades.
You’ll hear how attention in childhood became a proxy for love and safety, why being rewarded for usefulness cements hypervigilance, and how value gets fused to output until slowing down feels like failure. We explore the cost: chronic overfunctioning, comparison that stings, and a body that whispers “enough” while the mind says “more.” Along the way, we bring in somatic insights and a simple focus exercise—the red and yellow scan—that proves how your brain filters reality based on what you ask it to find. When you shift focus, you change the evidence your mind serves up, and that’s where new choices become possible.
This conversation is a gentle, practical guide to rewriting your inner script. Label thoughts as stories, not facts. Pair new language with breath, grounding, and micro-rest so the body learns that slower can be safe. Delegate one task fully, leave one email for the morning, and build proof that reliability and rest can co-exist. Change doesn’t arrive in a single revelation; it accrues one word, one response, one boundary at a time. Subscribe for more conversations on redefining success, share this with a woman who needs a softer script, and leave a review to help the show reach the people it’s meant for.The Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance Institute
For women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process.
We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself.
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Balance & Beyond
Balance and Beyond is the podcast for ambitious women refusing to accept burnout as the price of success. Here, we’re committed to empowering you with the tools and strategies you need to achieve true balance, where your career, relationships and health all thrive and where you have the power to define success on your own terms.
- No. of episodes: 200
- Latest episode: 2026-04-03
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